“These practices will reconnect you to a bigger perspective of space and timelessness, so you can see everything with the eyes of the one who knows life’s vastness and mystery.” – Jack Kornfield, A Lamp in the Darkness.
I’ll share a passage from that life review, about one experience that I had while ‘tripping.’ It had to do with an experience of gazing at the Milky Way. This experience, along with what I was developing in meditation at the time, gave me a sense of the possibility of developing spacious awareness.
One time, I was staying with friends on a country farm, and it was a clear night. The Milky Way was streaming across the vast, pitch-black sky. After taking the LSD, I went out into a paddock. I stood in the open, awed by quiet of the countryside, with the huge, arching expanse of the night sky. I felt my whole experience of happiness at being in that place, in that moment.
Then, as I gazed upward, I noticed the crisp and silent clarity of my awareness of it all. Awareness itself was a part of the experience. It wasn’t stars ‘out there,’ to be grasped by a ‘me in here.’ There was an interaction, which had the qualities of space, and clarity. In this meeting with the night sky, I had momentarily looked backward into the ‘knowing’ itself, and suddenly an enormous sense of boundlessness opened up. Further, the knowing and the space had no locale. It couldn’t be found, if we use the ordinary, knower-known meaning of ‘find.’
When I included my silent awareness in the totality of what I was experiencing, a felt quality of boundless unity arose, unified with that knowing. Remarkably, the non-locateable aspect of awareness wasn’t too disconcerting, this time. It had been on other non-drug, meditative occasions. Instead, it was accompanied by sufficient peace to give me a chance to reflect on the experience while it was happening.
This was a space of clarity and silent awareness that had no inside or outside. It was a sense of unity with, and inside, everything – a sense of spaciousness which included all the marvellous, living natural world. The cricket chirrups were as sharp as the stars, and they too were not in the usual time-space. They were non-locatable.
When I tried to find a concept for my felt sense of the whole experience, the only word that made any sense of what I was experiencing was: ‘One.’ “There is only the ‘One’”, I thought. And that ‘One’ included me. This was awesome, and, at the same time, in came a tiny bit of consternation. At that time, I still hadn’t come to peace with my personality, and much of my activities were (unwittingly) about escaping myself, not about accepting myself; and, certainly not about accepting that I am a natural event, a natural expression of the universe. So, it was natural that I should have some misgivings.
However, in the paddock under the Milky Way, the possibility of an integration with all that is, was, or ever would be, was palpable. It was both disconcerting and, at the same time, a wonderful experience. It was so simple, so natural (while, of course, unnaturally induced). It was natural because it was of awareness.
I was moving, at that stage of my life, into a phase of realising that meditation brings this integration much more wholesomely, stably, and even deeply. Meditation trains a stable, pliable, heart – a mind of love, with a sharp capacity for inquiry in the midst of the experience. Nevertheless, all my years of drug-free spacious mind-states, have only confirmed the essential insights of that precious blessing in the paddock.
I now know from experience that, for many of us, the loss of a locatable self is naturally disconcerting, and moreover – it can feel like one is dying. I also know from practice that we can train ourselves to stay for that ego-death. Bodily death itself will mean dissolution of any locatable self. Location of a self is dependent on constructions centred around a body, and in death, the sense of body dissolves in the early stages. Meditation training titrates the experience, until one can enter it deeply.
After I’d gone completely clean, free of drugs, I was in the company one day of a Tibetan teacher, when someone asked him about drug experiences. He said (something like), “Oh, that has some good effects. It can introduce people to the ‘inside’ life. But, you have to give it up, sooner or later, and find the inside naturally.”
Even later, I was to experiment a lot with Time, Space and Knowledge exercises, which suited me perfectly, because I had become so accustomed to resting into boundless, experiential space. On the other hand, true to human form, I got a bit too spacey, and had to learn to ground myself. I twigged to this one day, when a friend said, “Christopher, you’re in danger of getting attached to formlessness.” Vast space isn’t an escape from relationship – it accommodates, it is a ground for relationship.
“We have limitless possibilities to find fulfilment and satisfaction in our lives and in our relationships with one another. By learning to directly contact the essence of our being, we can discover an unbounded freedom which is not only a freedom from some external restraint, but is itself the dynamic expression of the meaning and value of being human.” – Tarthang Tulku, Time, Space and Knowledge